Just a question, I didnt really bother to read the rest of the thread but whatever. Why do you absolutely want to waste your money on your first car?
You are most likely to destroy your first car more than any other car you will own later on. Why bother and add stupid goodies to it. It's not like you own a 1000hp Supra or a 1M$ Veiron.
If I were you I would pile my cash for something more useful. But hey it's my opinion, and I'm an **** so no one care about what I say.